Day 117 A women’s smile

2 05 2013

I love Texas and always will but two weird things have happened this year. We haven’t had any really bad storms which means there coming and tonight it could be 37 degrees Yes in May! I out away winter cloths and this morning my son threw a fit because he said he was sweating yesterday and now I m putting him in a sweater. When he walked outside he said oh what happened. I said mother nature is cranky he then asked whose mother nature. I just said lets just know it’s cold and by Saturday it will be warm.

I’m going to write in the future about flattery and a compliments and there is a very big difference but we all need compliments. Even getting one from a total stranger can keep you smiling and totally change your day for the better.I don’t go looking for nice things to say but sometimes you just know. I walked into a QT yesterday and this lady had amazing hair. Yes when you’re a single guy you notice things you didn’t before.  She dropped her coffee and it  looked like it had been one of those mornings. I let her get her coffee situated and then said told her that her hair was really beautiful. She looked at me and smiled and said how did you know I needed that? I said honestly I liked your hair and you spilled your coffee. She said my husband didn’t say a word and I thought I looked good and you made my day.

I heard the words but what I remembered was her smile. I m  a sucker for a women with a beautiful smile. There is nothing more beautiful when a women looks at you and she’s happy. Not the fake happy but you feel radiance, confidence, appreciation through her smile. I know what it was like to make a women frown and piss her off. I knew the problems were there and getting worse when the smile was gone. If a compliment could make a women smile that way every time I would do it every hour.  What women don’t know that to a man when you smile it lets us know some of the following: You gave us a little leniency, covers up our awkward social mess ups, laugh off hurt, lets us know you may want sex (I did say may). Just know rather than you got me at hello you had me when you smiled.

 

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Day 117 A women’s smile

2 05 2013

I love Texas and always will but two weird things have happened this year. We haven’t had any really bad storms which means there coming and tonight it could be 37 degrees Yes in May! I out away winter cloths and this morning my son threw a fit because he said he was sweating yesterday and now I m putting him in a sweater. When he walked outside he said oh what happened. I said mother nature is cranky he then asked whose mother nature. I just said lets just know it’s cold and by Saturday it will be warm.

I’m going to write in the future about flattery and a compliments and there is a very big difference but we all need compliments. Even getting one from a total stranger can keep you smiling and totally change your day for the better.I don’t go looking for nice things to say but sometimes you just know. I walked into a QT yesterday and this lady had amazing hair. Yes when you’re a single guy you notice things you didn’t before.  She dropped her coffee and it  looked like it had been one of those mornings. I let her get her coffee situated and then said told her that her hair was really beautiful. She looked at me and smiled and said how did you know I needed that? I said honestly I liked your hair and you spilled your coffee. She said my husband didn’t say a word and I thought I looked good and you made my day.

I heard the words but what I remembered was her smile. I m  a sucker for a women with a beautiful smile. There is nothing more beautiful when a women looks at you and she’s happy. Not the fake happy but you feel radiance, confidence, appreciation through her smile. I know what it was like to make a women frown and piss her off. I knew the problems were there and getting worse when the smile was gone. If a compliment could make a women smile that way every time I would do it every hour.  What women don’t know that to a man when you smile it lets us know some of the following: You gave us a little leniency, covers up our awkward social mess ups, laugh off hurt, lets us know you may want sex (I did say may). Just know rather than you got me at hello you had me when you smiled.





Day 38 Burning Bridges

28 09 2012

I m writing from one of the most remote places I ve ever been to. There is proof that even out in the Middle of BFE that McDonald’s has Wi-Fi. Thank you McDonald’s and the Space program for satellites.

Okay so my grammar is still a work in progress but kiss it because I don’t care. Just say something nice about the content. I went to public school and I got hit in the head a lot so the fact I can read is progress.

Witnessed a lot of pain and doubt today with friends and family. I so wish I could just fix things. I know men are wired to fix but I really would. I hate seeing and hearing about the pain of others. My heart is to big I was told today. I believe that to be crap. Oh well tomorrow is different and I will be there for you because I will need you soon to.

 

A little Talk about burning Bridges. Urban Dictionary said that burning Bridges means:

cut off all ties in a relationship
when you burn a bridge you can’t cross it again. to burn a bridge means to be completely done with something.

I was the worlds worst at doing this. I don’t believe anymore that you have to burn a bridge unless you’re in a war. You can cross it but don’t burn it. You will always have to cross that bridge or want to. After divorce I wanted to burn so many bridges. Today I got a hug from someone who I came close to writing out of my life. That person didn’t allow me to burn the Bridge. Thank you JJ.

 

Here is a song by the Mike Curb Congregation: Pretty strong words.

Friends all tried to warn me
But I held my head up high
All the time they warned me
But I only passed them by
They all tried to tell me
But I guess I didn’t care
I turned my back and
Left them standing there

All the burning bridges that have fallen after me
All the lonely feelings and the burning memories
Everyone I left behind each time I closed the door
Burning bridges lost forevermore

Joey tried to help me find a job
A while ago
When I finally got it I didn’t want to go
The party Mary gave for me
When I just walked away
Now there’s nothing left for me to say

All the burning bridges that have fallen after me
All the lonely feelings and the burning memories
Everyone I left behind each time I closed the door
Burning bridges lost forevermore

Years have passed and I keep thinking
What a fool I’ve been
I look back into the past and
Think of way back then
I know that I lost everything I thought that I could win
I guess I should have listened to my friends

All the burning bridges that have fallen after me
All the lonely feelings and the burning memories
Everyone I left behind each time I closed the door
Burning bridges lost forevermore

Smile when you don’t want to and kill them with kindness. Love ya all. Pass this along.





Day 24 Look back but dont stare

14 09 2012

When I write this blog every night about my past it feels so unnatural, because I’m no longer the guy to dwell on the past. My life  has been full of peaks and valleys and because of that sometimes I have been able through this blog or other means to teach others about what is possible, but if I always look back  I could have never seen the road ahead. If your driving your car down the road intent getting to a certain  destination  it is physically impossible to look backward and drive forward. Eventually you’re going to crash. I crashed hard and we all will. The  choice then is look back or look forward. Do you know why the windshield is bigger than the back window?

When we are depressed and at our worst we feel locked up in our pain and how bad things are. We always dwell on our mistakes we have made and how OTHERS have done us wrong. The pain and confusion is multiplied because we keep looking at what happened and reliving it even when its not true. We always feel drained and hopeless because we never look forward with positive expectation. When we attach the bad from the past to the present  we are unhappy about the past, present and future. Does anyone agree or am I typing crap here.
Manufacture your happiness and its hard. People love misery and will try there best to pull you down. Smack the crap out of yourself and stop it. I wasn’t meant to broke, busted and disgusted with myself. You weren’t either.Remember happiness is just an emotion. And all emotions are manufactured and therefore can be deconstructed and made new.

I went to Flint Texas today near Tyler. It was a 2.5 hour drive there and back. Went to see a house fire and provide an estimate.  Life sucks for people when they feel there only way out is to set there house on fire to get money. I walked around the house and say the gas trail and new they were in trouble. I asked a few questions and told the lady they they had commented arson and did the fire department spend a lot of time there last night . She said they but they didn’t commit arson. I showed her why they did and then she confessed about an hours worth of info. They were dying a slow death financially. It broke my heart and I had a tear roll down my eye. I told her I feel for her and gave her a bit of my story. At the end I told her to go confess to the authorities and it would be a lot simpler. She said since it was her husband idea that she would tell the authorities that. I think she was being funny but not sure really.  I got to think a lot about them and my own situation in life. I am truly surrounded with great people in my life. I m very blessed and what those people pour into me helps me everyday. Finally I can pour back into them and this time its not a bunch of shit.

Here’s a funny joke from my daughter. Do you know why the turtle crossed the road? To get to the shell station.  I know someone just laughed. I did . My kids come back tomorrow and I couldn’t be happier. I went outside a bit ago and its 68 degrees outside. We are almost to fall and its great. I call this weather naked weather but I ‘ll stop there.

Please pass this blog along. If it helps one that’s one more than it would have. Love ya all








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