Day 961 Im going to teach a sexual purity class

14 09 2015

Football is here and the world is a better place. My Cowboys are going to  crank it up tonight and my college teams are doing pretty good so far. It actually cooled down yesterday to 88 and it felt so good. I only slightly cooked the top of my bald head.  Here’s to the Cowboys winning the Superbowl and the rest of you crying about it 🙂

Yes you read that right I’m going to teach a Men’s  sexual purity class. I’m sure a few of you that know me are sitting at your computer with your mouth dropped open. Two weeks ago I was asked before counseling that I was recommended and would I consider it. I laughed at first because God is a funny dude. You mean me that has been with 190 women in my life, the same guy that struggled with porn and boobie bars, that objectified women and still many times does. They guys who had/ has received pictures and sent pictures that had no business asking for or receiving.  Yes that’s me and I’m sure a few are saying Tyler is the last person that needs to be doing this. Well when I first was asked that’s what I thought but then I got some words of wisdom and prayer.

To me there is nothing worse that getting advice or help from someone who doesn’t have a clue. Someone who speaks about divorce but never been there, a Dr that’s a podiatrist but telling a patient about their cancer, someone who lost a parent or child how to handle it but never lost either, or someone telling me how to remodel or build a house because you watched HDTV. Sure your entitled to your opinion but that doesn’t mean you know. Having a sinner  teach other sinners is better than having someone who doesn’t think they sin teach sinners.

I’m teaching this men’s sexual purity class for a few reasons, 1.I know the sexual struggle and its real. It maybe one of the biggest killer of relationships from porn, cheating, lust etc. I have lived it and it sucks but I know the steps to take and I’m somewhat pretty decent at following through, In 5 years I’ve only had sex 5 times. Considering my past that is a victory. 2. God has asked me to do it. God will let you put your money with your mouth is. I talk a good game about being a different man and trying to live that way, well here you go Go help others. 3. I need it! I need to tell my story, tell what I struggle with, and be held accountable. 4. My openness and vulnerability will help someone. If you have never heard me speak or just talk in my daily life I let it all go. You may not like it but  its whats best for me and I know because what I have been told it has helped others. When a man who follows God, allows himself to be real and true others will be helped. Men normally just don’t let you know their mistakes, they won’t tell you why they failed. When  God gives you an ability to do something you go do it.

I’m actually nervous about tomorrow night. I rarely get nervous but that just means something big is coming. Think about me tomorrow night, if you pray please pray not for my words but his. Those that don’t think this is a good idea its okay too, you’re right I’ll mess up but that makes God great he God forgives and allows us to get back on the saddle if we choose too.

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