Day 383 The other side of my bed

28 01 2014

This is true and I didn’t believe but I tried it many years ago. I had forgotten but it does work. If you feel your deodorant isn’t working you need to change it. Our bodies get used to our deodorant it doesn’t last as long then it stops working. I  changed the brand of my deodorant and man I smell great. i will go back in about 6 weeks to my other one but hello ladies that is me smelling awesome.

I write sometimes for me and sometimes I write so maybe you can get something out of it. not sure why Im writing this! I have never even thought about this but it may sound dumb but for the first time in my life I slept on the other side of the bed. I have had a California King bed since I was 21  now 38 and have always slept on “my side” of the bed. Sunday night I couldn’t sleep I was counting the ceiling fan blades as they went around, reading,  tossing and turning, and having a great conversation with myself. I got up and looked at myself in the mirror then came back and for the first time in my life I laid down on the other side of the bed. I swear it was like another life was laying there, memories flew back, good and bad and I felt engulfed in emotion.

That side of the bed is cold as you know but what was left there was tears, laughter, lonely thoughts, throwing my kids on the bed and playing but never had I tried to sleep there and that’s probably why. A bed made me feel that way. I could vividly remember conversations with my ex, and others before I was married. I felt like I was doing something wrong laying on that side of the bed.

Guess what I did stay and fell asleep it was definitely a weird feeling waking up that way, but my side didn’t feel so lonely when I did wake up. Not sure Im going to sleep “over there” again but I got to feel with the other side was about and it was something I needed to remember. I have no idea why I shared this but if you haven’t laid on the other side try it and see what happens!

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28 01 2014
markbialczak

I’m glad to hear you woke up on the wrong side of the bed and felt good enough to write about it, Tyler.

28 01 2014
missraychanel84

Every once in a while on a day where I change my sheets, I will completely flip what end of the bed I sleep on. Also, depending solely on my mood, I’ll also switch the side of the room that my bed is on. My room is very small, as is my bed. If I want to sleep on the other side of it (which simply involves rolling over) and get up the next morning from that side, I have to put the bed on the other side of the room. It’s a lot of work, but I said all of that to say that it’s nice to switch things up… and I understand what you mean.

29 01 2014
davidprosser

That’s going to be a problem for me since I sleep in a single bed these days. I save the double for guests and usually only go in that room to clean or change the bedding. Perhaps I could try swapping ends?.
Have a Great Day.

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