Day 233 Woman ask him out

29 08 2013

Day 233 Woman ask him out.

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Day 233 Woman ask him out

28 08 2013

Day 233 Woman ask him out.





Day 233 Woman ask him out

28 08 2013

This is one of one of my favorite blogs because it’s so true! I wrote this in August and have a lot of time to make sure about this. If you can’t ask him out at least let him know you like him. Remember men are dumb creatures we don’t always pick up on non-verbal ques. Sometimes a smack in the face would be great! I have caught myself saying I should ask her out but no way not today. I don’t use lines so I try to be funny and somedays my comedy stinks! just read and think about it!

 

Another day another dollar. Thats always been a funny saying because it’s not true!  Another day you need more than a dollar is better!  This weekend when hanging out with a friend we were talking about how hard it is to date being older. He said the hardest thing is rejection. You want to ask and you get your hopes up and about the time your ready to ask she leaves, you chicken out, or you talk  yourself out of why she will say no.  I never really had this discussion with another guy but after asking many single men the conclusion became. Woman please ask me out. Times have changed and women want all things to be equal except when it comes to relationships and dating. I’m old school still open doors, pull out chairs etc.. but man it would be amazing if a women asks me out. The one thing women don’t understand is the courage and power it takes to ask a women out then she says no.  The thought the process we go through is amazing. Sure you can get “that guy” who will ask anybody but he’s looking for one thing and nothing more. I m talking about that person you see on Facebook, in church, at the grocery store, gym etc.. You see him look at you maybe he waves and he considers that success and if you smile at him he thinks look at what I did, but getting a smile and a yes when I ask you out is big time different.

Think about this: he doesn’t ask because he thinks you would say no. You would say yes but he gets afraid and walks away. Life is about 3 second decisions. Can’t really hurt anything! From my friend Patrick he said:
I am 38 and ever since I can remember….woman have never  asked me out & I asked woman out that I was I attracted to. I would not have known they were interested had they not…some guys simply do not know when a woman is attracted to them……sculpture or not. Just be yourself . If your attracted to someone …..let them know…….as long as you are both single etc. . . .

I don’t want women to deal with rejection but if you want something go get it. Remember men have self-esteem issues as well and hate being rejected. Don’t worry about who pays just let him know you like them old school ways can come back or if  you want to pay please do. If you want different from what you had and your sick of your type go ask and see what happens. I speak for all single men that we would appreciate that greatly.

When we do ask let us down easy or say yes you may get the best thing you ever had.





Day 231There’s always a cost

27 08 2013

I packed about a month of weekends into this weekend. Had Brayden’s first TBall game, went and watched a Crossfit competition, Dallas Cowboys game, church and last night went to the Dave Chappell comedy show. There were about 17K people there, it was really hot but one of the funnies thing I have ever watched. I loved Dave Chappell when he was on Comedy Central and its great for him to be back and still as abrasive as ever. The Gexa Pavilion is an outdoor facility and I think that marijuana is highly encouraged there or at least every person around me thought that.

You ever started driving to church and prayed that you would hear something that can take away a feeling, or situation in your life? While in the midst of is this crappy situation I got pulled over for speeding. I got off with a warning and then the message at church was taylor made for me.  When we have been offended or hurt it will always cost us something. I told myself yeah no crap. If your brother sins against you forgive him. Okay I get it but essential it doesn’t matter how many times, someone disrespects you, ignores you, spits on you we have to continue to forgive. Well that sucks in all honesty.  Sooner or later enough is enough! Not from Gods perspective though and so I get offend and carry it with me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and thin-skinned sometimes. So when someone puts the bait out I take it. I get offend and I get hurt usually pretty bad. Sure I’m better but I still think of at times if that person was to get sick would it bother me. How  about if they just got a little food poisoning. I know I’m not in the boat alone because every one of us has been offended and wished something bad on someone and that caused bitterness which then moves to unforgiveness.As pastor Toby said you can’t believe in God and live a don’t cross me attitude. The thing is we are all going to get offended but how do we let that control that life. Your mate cheats on you and leaves, a best friend that made fun of you with the “others” , your kids spit on you  after all you have done.  There is a cost if you don’t let it go: 1. It keeps you in your past and you can never live the life intended if you don’t let it go. 2. If you hold onto it the your taking God’s place and he will let you have it if you want, 3. You kill your holy spirit, and 4.the devil has you and you won’t let go of him.

I thought I was done with that part of my life but lucky me I’m human and if I think I have  it under control I don’t. The message hit home and I’m so thankful I heard it but I do know I m working everyday to let go of the offense. It is costing me the need to fill justified, I have to lose and not get even, but really losing that is not a loss its called living and thats what I want to do.





Day 231There’s always a cost

27 08 2013

Day 231There’s always a cost.





Day 231There’s always a cost

26 08 2013

I packed about a month of weekends into this weekend. Had Brayden’s first TBall game, went and watched a Crossfit competition, Dallas Cowboys game, church and last night went to the Dave Chappell comedy show. There were about 17K people there, it was really hot but one of the funnies thing I have ever watched. I loved Dave Chappell when he was on Comedy Central and its great for him to be back and still as abrasive as ever. The Gexa Pavilion is an outdoor facility and I think that marijuana is highly encouraged there or at least every person around me thought that.

You ever started driving to church and prayed that you would hear something that can take away a feeling, or situation in your life? While in the midst of is this crappy situation I got pulled over for speeding. I got off with a warning and then the message at church was taylor made for me.  When we have been offended or hurt it will always cost us something. I told myself yeah no crap. If your brother sins against you forgive him. Okay I get it but essential it doesn’t matter how many times, someone disrespects you, ignores you, spits on you we have to continue to forgive. Well that sucks in all honesty.  Sooner or later enough is enough! Not from Gods perspective though and so I get offend and carry it with me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and thin-skinned sometimes. So when someone puts the bait out I take it. I get offend and I get hurt usually pretty bad. Sure I’m better but I still think of at times if that person was to get sick would it bother me. How  about if they just got a little food poisoning. I know I’m not in the boat alone because every one of us has been offended and wished something bad on someone and that caused bitterness which then moves to unforgiveness.As pastor Toby said you can’t believe in God and live a don’t cross me attitude. The thing is we are all going to get offended but how do we let that control that life. Your mate cheats on you and leaves, a best friend that made fun of you with the “others” , your kids spit on you  after all you have done.  There is a cost if you don’t let it go: 1. It keeps you in your past and you can never live the life intended if you don’t let it go. 2. If you hold onto it the your taking God’s place and he will let you have it if you want, 3. You kill your holy spirit, and 4.the devil has you and you won’t let go of him.

I thought I was done with that part of my life but lucky me I’m human and if I think I have  it under control I don’t. The message hit home and I’m so thankful I heard it but I do know I m working everyday to let go of the offense. It is costing me the need to fill justified, I have to lose and not get even, but really losing that is not a loss its called living and thats what I want to do.





Day 226 Am I okay

23 08 2013

It’s amazing how many times in the day I hear some random women say something negative about how they look. I truly appreciate a women when she’s not a dolled up. Women please listen: when u think u look ur worst u look ur best. Appreciate ur true beauty and if he doesn’t like it teach him.  You teach a man by not speaking down how you look. You learn that the more respect  yourself even on the ” not good days” he will learn. Men are dumb creatures. You also teach by complimenting him even on his bad days.

I got to have lunch with one of my favorite fraternity brothers yesterday and catch him up on the past 4 years. He said are you okay. I said absolutely doing great. He said sometimes I read your blog and I worry about you. I want to let all of you to know that I truly am doing great. I struggle some days like everyone and there are moments that take me back to a sad or angry place in my past. I write about my past, divorce, father, loss of friends, money etc.. but I want someone to understand the past is just that. It does hurt and shapes our future but we don’t have to be defined by it. I still write because it makes me feel better and I need to get the pain of life off of my chest. Many of you don’t know that Im very funny, I can tell a joke about anything, I can laugh at the smallest things and Im the guy that ” yes he just said that”. I used to be serious and when funny it was just to cover up my pain. Now my true Tyler is back and I love to entertain and try to make others smile. For the first time in my 37 years I have a peace about me and sometimes the peace is weird and I don’t understand it but I do appreciate it.

This is the best place I have ever been in life. Sure I would love to have someone in my life to help complete the circle but that time hasn’t come. Since I have waited and got to the point that I don’t “need” someone  she will be lucky and so will I. So the question are you okay. I have never been better, if your close to me you would say when you were born you weren’t okay but that’s just my crazy side you don’t know about. I truly appreciate all of the encouragement, sayings and patience you have shown with me. Don’t worry if Im not okay I will let you know but in the mean time here is one guy that the devil didn’t beat.

 








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