Day 117 A women’s smile

2 05 2013

I love Texas and always will but two weird things have happened this year. We haven’t had any really bad storms which means there coming and tonight it could be 37 degrees Yes in May! I out away winter cloths and this morning my son threw a fit because he said he was sweating yesterday and now I m putting him in a sweater. When he walked outside he said oh what happened. I said mother nature is cranky he then asked whose mother nature. I just said lets just know it’s cold and by Saturday it will be warm.

I’m going to write in the future about flattery and a compliments and there is a very big difference but we all need compliments. Even getting one from a total stranger can keep you smiling and totally change your day for the better.I don’t go looking for nice things to say but sometimes you just know. I walked into a QT yesterday and this lady had amazing hair. Yes when you’re a single guy you notice things you didn’t before.  She dropped her coffee and it  looked like it had been one of those mornings. I let her get her coffee situated and then said told her that her hair was really beautiful. She looked at me and smiled and said how did you know I needed that? I said honestly I liked your hair and you spilled your coffee. She said my husband didn’t say a word and I thought I looked good and you made my day.

I heard the words but what I remembered was her smile. I m  a sucker for a women with a beautiful smile. There is nothing more beautiful when a women looks at you and she’s happy. Not the fake happy but you feel radiance, confidence, appreciation through her smile. I know what it was like to make a women frown and piss her off. I knew the problems were there and getting worse when the smile was gone. If a compliment could make a women smile that way every time I would do it every hour.  What women don’t know that to a man when you smile it lets us know some of the following: You gave us a little leniency, covers up our awkward social mess ups, laugh off hurt, lets us know you may want sex (I did say may). Just know rather than you got me at hello you had me when you smiled.




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