Day 98 Cheap Sex

27 11 2012

I m tired my daughter work up with an ear ache and didn’t go back to sleep until 4:00. Then at 4:30 my son comes to bed and tells me for 10 minutes about a scary dream. He has one hell of an an imagination. Morgan did have an ear infection and I think every kid in the Dr.offices did.

My friend Laura sent me this article today and wanted to know is it true. Yes it is all of it. I m giving you the whole article here but only commenting on a few parts. Will He Stick Around After You Get Intimate? Not If You Make These Common Mistakes

This is a great read for women and men take a few notes. Ladies please know this is for real men not little boys or lying men.

What You Need To Create In Him BEFORE You Have Sex

Here’s the thing…

Yes, you might have “goofed” by being physical with him too early – you know, before you were clear about what YOU wanted, so that you wouldn’t get hurt if you found out he didn’t want the same thing.

But stop being so hard on yourself. It’s the past, and it’s not the problem now. The real problem now is something entirely different. Sleeping or being physical with a man is NOT a bad thing.

But FIRST you’ve got to CREATE the right FEELINGS inside him – feelings that have nothing to do with SEX – for sex to end up truly bringing you closer in love.

A man won’t “fall” for you just because you’ve slept together. Although, it’s likely that YOU will feel more bonded to him after sleeping with him.

It’s part of the biological make-up of a woman and a man. It’s the way things are “wired.”

So you want to know how to “re-wire” things?

First of all, stop hoping that the fact that you’ve had sex will magically win him over into being an open and loving partner like you are.

Then read the section in Chapter 8 of my eBook called “Triggering A Deeper Level Of Attraction In A Man”:

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What you need to know is there. In it, I reveal another kind of ATTRACTION that goes deeper than just the everyday PHYSICAL ATTRACTION a man can feel for you: EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION.

When a man feels ATTRACTION for you in this way, then he will become EMOTIONALLY CONNECTED to you on a deeper level than he ever could simply through his physical desire for you.

You know a man has intense physical desires. That’s easy.

But have you taken the time to learn how the deeper, more “relationship-oriented” feelings and emotions are created inside him?

The feelings that make a man want to be with one woman in a committed relationship are different than what makes A WOMAN open to exploring a relationship.

Ever Thought About What A Man Really Wants In A Woman?

I’m talking about mature, healthy men here. Not “man-boys” or “players”, who have a totally different agenda altogether.

Men want someone they feel deeply ATTRACTED to.

They want to have that feeling of WANTING a woman.

They want to worship her, to please her, to ravish her, and to sweep her off her feet with their physical and emotional presence. And for the woman to be utterly and completely taken with them and what they do.

So, what happens when men act like they’re not interested in anything serious or don’t want a relationship or their too busy to have one… or any other of a list of lame excuses they give you?

This happens because most women don’t create the experience that will make a man FEEL this way.

Plain and simple.

A man is looking for that “WOW!” experience with a woman. And when he doesn’t feel it, there’s nothing a woman who doesn’t make him FEEL this way can do or say to make him want something more with her.

He just loses interest and moves on.

But keep reading, because I’m going to show you how to create that unforgettable experience for him…

His Drive To Be Challenged… And Win

The other thing to know is that men have something that I call the “Pursuit Gene.”

There’s a drive in men that makes them want to be CHALLENGED… and to overcome that challenge. I know it sounds cliche, but it’s true.

Men want to be challenged by the idea of meeting, attracting, and pursuing a woman. And then they want to win the woman over and feel stronger as a man for having done it.

Men will meet this challenge in one of two ways:

  1. They’ll find fulfillment from the feeling of “freedom” and emptiness by physically being with a woman in the short-term (sex)
  2. They find connection and love by physically AND emotionally being with the woman in a deeper and “longer-term” way (relationship)

Here’s the AMAZING part…

A woman helps him choose which it will be with her.

Interesting…

The Point Is, Men LOVE The Chase

It’s part of their genetic make-up.

But if a woman loses control emotionally, seeks HIS APPROVAL, or thinks she can trade sex to receive love before a man is experiencing an intense desire to WIN HER OVER and to be with her, then something else happens.

The man loses that feeling of excitement and challenge with her. He recognizes that the woman has already given over physical and emotional CONTROL to him. Which destroys the strongest “lead-in” to creating lasting love with a man.

What is that “lead-in”?

ATTRACTION.

Men want to feel ATTRACTION.

They don’t want a woman to try to convince them that what they’re experiencing and feeling should be meaningful and loving. No. That’s not how men work.

Instead, they want to FEEL their desire for a woman inside their whole body, emotionally driving them, and for it to be undeniable and unrelenting.

Get where I’m going here?

Don’t Deny Him The Thrill Of The Chase

So if you don’t allow a man to FEEL that desire, to feel like he can’t stop thinking about you and wanting you BEFORE you sleep with him, it won’t create a situation where he’s going to want anything more than a fleeting sexual experience.

There is a way to get a man FEELING it for you.

There are specific behaviors and attitudes that make a woman literally IRRESISTIBLE to a man, so that he will feel that strong desire to be with you before, during and the all-important AFTER getting physically intimate with him.

And he will not only be “open” to talking about something deeper and more meaningful with you, he’ll INSIST on it.

How To Make Him Want You And Only You

I’ve put together an entire program about what it is that makes a man fall madly for you because he just can’t stop thinking about you and wanting you.

This program is Natural & Lasting Attraction. In it, I explain exactly what a woman can do and say to push all the “right buttons” to create Emotional Attraction.

I also reveal little-known secrets such as:

  • How to spot and identify an immature man QUICKLY so you never again waste your time on someone who doesn’t deserve you
  • The 5 things about a woman that a man is genetically programmed to be attracted to… and how to quickly let a man know you possess ALL these qualities
  • The mysterious “missing ingredient” that makes a man interested in MUCH MORE than just a short fling or affair

And tons more…

I explain it all right here (and you can watch right now):

Natural & Lasting Attraction

I don’t ever want you to feel insecure and uncertain when you sleep with a man. Watch Natural & Lasting Attraction now and find out what it takes to be the woman he can’t wait to be physically AND emotionally close with… again and again.

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